5 Myths about Christian Dating

There are currently a number of myths surrounding Christian dating in general. This article aims to clarify these misconceptions and is meant to aid you in your attempts at finding that perfect life partner online.

Myth #1: The words of The Bible define pre-marriage guidelines clearly

This is simply not true. Check over the postings at any number of Christian dating websites and this point will become clear. Yes, there are many biblical principles that are considered essential in dating, but you will be hard pressed to find any specific guidelines for Christian dating practices.

Myth #2: Christian singles websites differ greatly from other matchmaking services

There is a very little difference between the services offered by established online dating communities and Christian dating websites. Unluckily, many of the Christian singles websites can be quite limiting. Their lack of structured options for matching up compatibility was frustrating and more time consuming than was really necessary.

Myth #3: Looking for love online isn’t a very Christian way of going about it

This is simply nonsense. As myth #1 states, there are no predefined guidelines for the right or wrong way to meet a life-long partner. Meeting a prospective mate online, whether through one of the Christian singles websites, or a service, is one of the most effective means of finding a soul mate in today’s society. It serves as an effective way to break the ice without the pressures involved within the singles dating scene.

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Myth #4: I will never meet a quality Christian man or woman through a computer

More nonsense! One important fact is that your computer is just the tool that can be used to meet someone you would have never met without it. If for example you are attending a party with other Christian singles in attendance, there is only so much time available to talk to each individual and try to determine the level of compatibility you both share. You would basically have to devote the whole party to one or two individuals. When using a free online matchmaking service, or one of the Christian singles websites for instance, you can get the initial compatibility out of the way much more efficiently.

Myth #5: There is no such thing as a soul mate

A perfectly happy woman, engaged to a man she loves, spends most of her time lamenting the fact that she may have missed out on someone better. Of course, we’re led to believe her true soul mate lives 3,000 miles away and doesn’t know her from Adam. Yet, destiny and fate must have their way and incredible circumstances bring them to the climactic scene on top of the Empire State Building, where the two strangers lock eyes and know instantly that they are to be together forever.

This article cleared up some of the common myths surrounding Christian dating. In order for you to broaden your scope in your search for your perfect soul mate, try not to limit yourself to Christian singles websites alone.